Here are some general pointers on how to be a more friendly, social person. A quickie definition of 'friendly' would be being nice to, and interested in, other people. I'd define 'social' as spending a fair amount of time with other people and enjoying it.
The advice below talks about specific actions and overall dispositions (e.g., be positive about people, be interested in others) at the same time. The two are connected, but you don't have a ton of control over your disposition towards other people. If you're not in an outgoing, chatty mood at the moment, or if you're more reserved in general, that's just the way you are. You can't flip a switch and feel warm and loving towards everyone instantly. However, you can still keep some of the specific actions in mind, and they may be all you actually need. For example, if you're at work and you find you're keeping to yourself that day, you can remind yourself that you should go join your coworkers and see what they're up to.
Also, the ideas here don't suggest that you need to turn into a phony, or a needy suck up, or an over the top caricature of a 'friendly' person. They should be thought of more as background attitudes that subtlety influence how you approach interactions with other people. A serious macho guy and a more affable, breezy type could use the same basic concepts and still maintain their own personality styles. Be fairly low key about implementing the points below.
Start conversations with new people
If you've recently been introduced to someone, or you see some new people around, go up to them and start a conversation. Even saying hi, asking for their name, and going, "Cool, nice meeting you. I'll see you around later hopefully" can be good.
Chat back to people who try to talk to you
Have you ever tried making pleasant conversation with someone you've run into, and they blew you off by giving one word responses and obviously looking like they don't want to be spoken too? You probably walked away thinking they were pretty unfriendly, even if you intellectually knew they may have had a reason for being brusque. If someone is trying to chat with you, make an effort to give them something back in return.
Take time to talk to people you already know
If you see someone you know, then go over and see what's going on with them. No real reason, just because. Catch up with what they've been up to lately, or just talk about whatever. Keep in touch with your friends. Stop and chat to your coworkers when they're not too busy. Maintain your relationships and show you're interested in the other people. If you see someone you know, don't avoid them because you don't feel like talking, or pretend not to notice them because you're worried the conversation will be stilted. Go up to them and chit chat for a few minutes.
Invite people to do things with you/the group
Be fairly loose and generous with your invitations to people. Be the one to invite people out rather than waiting for them to come to you first. Don't feel you have to know someone for a long time either. If you seem to get along with them then why not ask them to do something? If you like your new coworker or classmate, ask them if they want to grab a drink later, or come by your place to chill. If you run into a friend downtown, and neither of you is doing anything, ask if they want to grab a bite to eat, or if one of you is busy, suggest you get together later some time. Ask the new guy in your apartment if he wants to play pool down the street in an hour or so. Don't feel you have to know someone for a predesignated amount of time before you can hang out with them.
If everyone at work is going out on Friday evening then ask anyone who may not know if they want to come along as well. If you're meeting some friends later that night, ask your new acquaintance if he wants to join you. If you run into a buddy on the street for five seconds, tell him that you're going to be a Dan's place later if he wants to drop by. Of course, when you throw invitations out like this, they won't always be accepted, but that's cool.
Make an effort to bring new people into the fold and make them feel included
If you're out with your longtime friends and there's a new person there, take the time to talk to them a bit, rather than being more aloof and expecting them to make the effort of getting to know you. At the end of the night mention that everyone is seeing a certain concert in the next two weeks if they want to come. If there's a new person at work, fill them in on the general goings on, and let them know everyone in your department usually grabs lunch together at 12:30. Mention that you and three other people usually play football on Thursday evenings if they want to join in.
Go to where the people are
If you're at work and everyone is going out for lunch then go as well. If they all eat lunch at a certain time and place, then eat lunch then too. If you're at a party and everyone is talking on the front porch, go join them. If you're at a bar and everyone is hanging around on the couches downstairs, then you may as well be there too. Show you want to spend time with the people you came with. And once you're there, join in whatever they're doing. Don't hang back and get lost in your head.
Spend more time with people
Spend time with people more often. Spend time with them longer. Spend time with more of them. If when you normally see your friends, you leave after a few hours, try spending all day with them. If you only see your friends once or twice a week, try seeing them three times. If you usually keep to yourself at work, and only talk to people on break, try spending time with your coworkers a little more during the workday. If you only see some acquaintances of yours under specific circumstances (e.g., in particular class, at a club), then try to see them outside of that situation. This is all assuming the people you know would be glad to spend more time with you, but if you prefer your own company like I often do, you probably underestimate the amount of time 'regular' people like to spend with each other. It can also be an interesting experience to resist your urge to go home, spend several more hours with people past your usual tolerance, and realize you actually kind of prefer it to being home alone with not enough to do.
Make nice little gestures towards other people
Buy someone a drink or a shot. Offer to pay for your friend's meal if you're grabbing some snacks at a pub. Hold the door for someone. Bring food or drinks to a party when it wasn't expected that you do so. Do these things occasionally as a friendly gesture to someone you already like. Don't do it as a way to buy people's affection or make them obligated to you to return a favor at a later time. If you do these things too much you can get taken for granted, taken advantage of, look like you're trying too hard to please everyone and make them like you, and put other people in an awkward situation because they feel uncomfortable taking so many free handouts.
Offer compliments to people
Don't be afraid to be positive and encouraging towards other people. If someone is good at something then tell them so. If someone looks nice, or is well dressed, then say you think so. If you think someone is funny, or a cool person, then let them know. Again, moderation is the key. The occasional genuine compliment is way better than a constant stream of try-hard ones.
Be reasonably polite
Whatever it means to the company you find yourself with, be fairly polite to everyone. If someone does something nice, or goes out of their way for you, then thank them. Ask nicely if you're asking someone for something. Don't be an unnecessarily abrasive, self-centered, and unappreciative. You don't have to be excessive, or be stuffy and proper, but be considerate.
Make sure everyone is having a good time when you're out
Without overdoing it and being a pest, put some energy into making sure everyone is having fun when you're out in a group. If someone seems left out of the conversation, try to maneuver it to a topic they can contribute to. Or if someone seems like they want to say something, but they can't get a word into a lively discussion, casually indicate to everyone that they want to talk. If you're doing an activity that someone doesn't seem comfortable with, try to coax them to join in (if it's harmless and you know they'll have fun once they start), or take some time to explain the basics to them if they aren't familiar with how to do it. If someone seems bored, or annoyed, see if you can get them to have fun somehow.
Be interested in what other people have to say
This is one of those easier-said-than-done dispositions. Sometimes, for whatever reason, you're not in the mood and you genuinely don't care about what certain people have to say. Still, when you are interested in other people you'll naturally be more friendly towards them. One thing I consistently find is that everyone has at least something interesting about them, it may just not be readily apparent. Like you may see a guy and assume he's pretty generic, but it turns out he was a professional table tennis player for a few years, and that he's worked as a 3D artist on some major movies. You never really know about these things.
Genuinely like other people
Also easier said than done, but if you have this attitude the other points will tend to flow out of it.
Overall, having a friendly disposition or attitude is great if you have it, but you can't consistently create one on demand. You can keep certain actions in mind though to still be a more friendly person. Just inviting people out more, remembering to chat to people when you see them around, or joining groups, even if nothing changes about you deep down, are still the behaviors of a sociable person. You'll come across that way more, your social life will probably get a boost, and eventually, through a slightly convoluted process, your mind may come to follow your actions.
下麵是如何成為友好和交際廣的人的幾點指針。對"友好"的簡單定義是"和藹的,以他人為重"的。我把"好交際"定義為與朋友度過相當一部分時間,並以此為樂趣。
下麵的意見談論具體行動以及所帶有的總體性情(例如,待人積極,以他人為重).它們兩者
是(shi)有(you)聯(lian)係(xi)的(de),你(ni)不(bu)能(neng)有(you)效(xiao)控(kong)製(zhi)你(ni)對(dui)他(ta)人(ren)的(de)性(xing)情(qing)。如(ru)果(guo)你(ni)那(na)時(shi)沒(mei)有(you)一(yi)個(ge)外(wai)向(xiang),善(shan)談(tan)的(de)心(xin)情(qing),或(huo)者(zhe)以(yi)你(ni)的(de)更(geng)保(bao)守(shou)的(de)方(fang)式(shi)。你(ni)不(bu)可(ke)能(neng)翻(fan)轉(zhuan)開(kai)關(guan)就(jiu)立(li)刻(ke)感(gan)到(dao)對(dui)每(mei)個(ge)人(ren)的(de)溫(wen)暖(nuan)和(he)愛(ai)心(xin)。但(dan)是(shi),您(nin)仍(reng)然(ran)可(ke)以(yi)銘(ming)記(ji)一(yi)些(xie)具(ju)體(ti)行(xing)動(dong),他(ta)們(men)可(ke)能(neng)是(shi)你(ni)的(de)實(shi)際(ji)需(xu)要(yao)的(de)。例(li)如(ru),如(ru)果(guo)你(ni)在(zai)工(gong)作(zuo)並(bing)且(qie)發(fa)現(xian)你(ni)那(na)天(tian)離(li)群(qun)獨(du)居(ju),你(ni)該(gai)提(ti)醒(xing)自(zi)己(ji)加(jia)入(ru)到(dao)同(tong)事(shi)中(zhong)去(qu)看(kan)看(kan)他(ta)們(men)都(dou)在(zai)忙(mang)些(xie)什(shen)麼(me)。
此(ci)外(wai),這(zhe)裏(li)的(de)想(xiang)法(fa)並(bing)不(bu)表(biao)明(ming)你(ni)需(xu)要(yao)變(bian)成(cheng)一(yi)個(ge)虛(xu)偽(wei)的(de),一(yi)個(ge)拍(pai)馬(ma)屁(pi)的(de)人(ren),或(huo)者(zhe)一(yi)個(ge)諷(feng)刺(ci)漫(man)畫(hua)上(shang)的(de)所(suo)謂(wei)友(you)好(hao)人(ren)士(shi)。他(ta)們(men)應(ying)該(gai)想(xiang)到(dao)更(geng)多(duo)的(de)作(zuo)為(wei)背(bei)景(jing)態(tai)度(du)微(wei)妙(miao)的(de)方(fang)式(shi)影(ying)響(xiang)你(ni)如(ru)何(he)與(yu)其(qi)他(ta)人(ren)互(hu)動(dong)。一(yi)個(ge)嚴(yan)肅(su)的(de)馬(ma)喬(qiao)家(jia)夥(huo)和(he)更(geng)和(he)藹(ai)可(ke)親(qin),活(huo)潑(po)的(de)類(lei)型(xing)可(ke)以(yi)使(shi)用(yong)相(xiang)同(tong)的(de)基(ji)本(ben)概(gai)念(nian),並(bing)仍(reng)然(ran)保(bao)持(chi)其(qi)自(zi)己(ji)的(de)個(ge)性(xing)風(feng)格(ge)。關(guan)於(yu)執(zhi)行(xing)以(yi)下(xia)幾(ji)點(dian),要(yao)相(xiang)當(dang)低(di)調(tiao)。
開始與新的人交談
如果你最近被介紹給某人,或者你看到周圍某個不熟悉的人,走向他們並開始交談。即使是打招呼,問他們的名字,並說:"很高興見到你,以後的日子裏你會一切都好。
嚐試與他人交談
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花時間與你 已經認識的人交談
如ru果guo你ni看kan到dao認ren識shi的de人ren,走zou近jin他ta們men去qu看kan他ta們men在zai做zuo些xie什shen麼me。沒mei有you真zhen正zheng的de原yuan因yin隻zhi是shi應ying該gai那na樣yang做zuo。看kan他ta們men最zui近jin都dou忙mang些xie什shen麼me,或huo隻zhi是shi隨sui便bian談tan談tan。與yu您nin的de朋peng友you保bao持chi聯lian係xi。當dang你ni的de同tong事shi不bu太tai忙mang時shi,停ting下xia手shou中zhong的de活huo與yu他ta們men交jiao談tan。保bao持chi你ni的de那na些xie社she交jiao關guan係xi並bing表biao現xian出chu你ni對dui他ta人ren感gan興xing趣qu。如ru果guo你ni看kan到dao認ren識shi的de人ren,不bu要yao因yin為wei不bu想xiang說shuo話hua或huo因yin為wei害hai怕pa談tan話hua不bu自zi然ran假jia裝zhuang沒mei看kan到dao他ta們men而er避bi開kai他ta們men。走zou上shang前qian去qu簡jian單dan地di交jiao談tan幾ji分fen鍾zhong。
邀請其他人與你/組一起做事情
對(dui)你(ni)邀(yao)請(qing)的(de)人(ren)要(yao)寬(kuan)鬆(song)和(he)慷(kang)慨(kai)。做(zuo)一(yi)個(ge)邀(yao)請(qing)他(ta)人(ren)而(er)不(bu)是(shi)等(deng)待(dai)別(bie)人(ren)先(xian)走(zou)向(xiang)你(ni)。也(ye)不(bu)要(yao)覺(jiao)得(de)你(ni)應(ying)該(gai)了(le)解(jie)某(mou)人(ren)很(hen)長(chang)時(shi)間(jian)。你(ni)似(si)乎(hu)與(yu)他(ta)們(men)相(xiang)處(chu)地(di)不(bu)錯(cuo),那(na)麼(me)為(wei)什(shen)麼(me)不(bu)問(wen)問(wen)他(ta)們(men)做(zuo)了(le)什(shen)麼(me)?如(ru)果(guo)您(nin)喜(xi)歡(huan)新(xin)的(de)同(tong)事(shi)或(huo)同(tong)學(xue), 問他們是否在喝完飲料後,到你的住所去涼爽片刻。
如果你在市中心遇到一個朋友,無論你在做什麼,問他們是否想吃些東西,或者你們其中一個暫時很忙,你們可以以後找時間聚一聚。 如果你的新夥伴願意在街區玩一個小時左右的水球,邀請他們到你的公寓來。不要認為你在與他們相處之前必須提前了解他們。
如(ru)果(guo)每(mei)個(ge)人(ren)隻(zhi)是(shi)星(xing)期(qi)五(wu)晚(wan)上(shang)才(cai)出(chu)去(qu),那(na)麼(me)問(wen)任(ren)何(he)你(ni)能(neng)不(bu)認(ren)識(shi)的(de)人(ren)是(shi)否(fou)願(yuan)意(yi)也(ye)一(yi)同(tong)前(qian)往(wang)。如(ru)果(guo)你(ni)在(zai)那(na)天(tian)晚(wan)些(xie)時(shi)候(hou)遇(yu)到(dao)了(le)某(mou)個(ge)朋(peng)友(you),問(wen)你(ni)的(de)新(xin)夥(huo)伴(ban)是(shi)否(fou)願(yuan)意(yi)一(yi)同(tong)去(qu)。如(ru)果(guo)你(ni)在(zai)街(jie)上(shang)遇(yu)到(dao)一(yi)個(ge)好(hao)朋(peng)友(you),告(gao)訴(su)他(ta)們(men)你(ni)過(guo)後(hou)要(yao)去(qu)丹(dan)廣(guang)場(chang)看(kan)他(ta)們(men)是(shi)否(fou)也(ye)願(yuan)去(qu)拜(bai)訪(fang)。當(dang)然(ran),當(dang)你(ni)發(fa)出(chu)了(le)這(zhe)樣(yang)的(de)邀(yao)請(qing),他(ta)們(men)不(bu)會(hui)總(zong)是(shi)同(tong)意(yi),但(dan)也(ye)會(hui)很(hen)不(bu)錯(cuo)的(de)。
盡力把新朋友帶入你的世界,讓他們感到自己沒被遺忘。
如ru果guo你ni和he一yi個ge交jiao情qing不bu錯cuo的de朋peng友you外wai出chu並bing且qie有you一yi個ge新xin朋peng友you在zai場chang,和he他ta們men多duo多duo交jiao談tan而er不bu是shi冷leng落luo他ta們men期qi望wang他ta們men試shi著zhe去qu了le解jie你ni。那na天tian晚wan上shang結jie束shu時shi如ru果guo他ta們men願yuan意yi將jiang會hui在zai兩liang周zhou後hou聽ting一yi場chang音yin樂le會hui。如ru果guo工gong作zuo中zhong有you了le新xin同tong事shi,讓rang他ta們men熟shu悉xi正zheng常chang的de工gong作zuo,並bing讓rang他ta們men知zhi道dao你ni們men部bu門men的de人ren通tong常chang在zai12:30共進午餐。也應該告訴他們您和其他三人通常在星期四晚上踢足球,看他們是否想加入。
到人多的地方去
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花更多的時間與人交往
jingchanghuashijianyurenjiaowang,huachangshijianyurenjiaowang。huashijianyugengduoderenjiaowang。ruguodangninjingchangkandaonidepengyou,nilikaihoujigexiaoshi,shituzhengtianyutamenzaiyiqi。 如果你隻看到你的朋友一次或每周兩次,你要試圖將看見他們3ci。ruguonintongchangbaochizijizaigongzuozhong,zhiyougenrenjiaotancaizhi,niyaochangshihuashijianyunindetongshiduoyidianzaigongzuo。ruguonizhizaitedingqingkuangxiakandaoyixieshuren(例如,在懼樂部這樣特定的場合 ),那na麼me嚐chang試shi在zai外wai麵mian看kan到dao他ta們men的de這zhe種zhong狀zhuang況kuang。這zhe是shi假jia設she你ni認ren識shi的de人ren將jiang很hen樂le意yi花hua更geng多duo的de時shi間jian與yu你ni在zai一yi起qi,但dan是shi如ru果guo你ni像xiang我wo一yi樣yang喜xi歡huan和he自zi己ji的de同tong伴ban在zai一yi起qi,你ni可ke能neng低di估gu了le你ni們men通tong常chang在zai一yi起qi的de的de時shi間jian。它ta也ye可ke以yi是shi一yi個ge有you趣qu的de經jing曆li抵di製zhi你ni回hui家jia的de衝chong動dong,花hua更geng多duo的de時shi間jian與yu超chao出chu你ni通tong常chang忍ren耐nai力li的de人ren在zai一yi起qi,實shi現xian你ni通tong常chang在zai家jia參can與yu不bu夠gou的de事shi情qing。
以好的姿態示人
為wei某mou人ren買mai一yi杯bei飲yin料liao或huo威wei士shi忌ji。提ti供gong支zhi付fu你ni的de朋peng友you的de膳shan食shi如ru果guo你ni酒jiu吧ba搶qiang占zhan了le一yi些xie零ling食shi。隨sui時shi等deng待dai他ta的de到dao來lai。當dang你ni並bing不bu被bei期qi望wang那na樣yang做zuo時shi,帶dai著zhe飲yin料liao和he食shi物wu去qu參can加jia晚wan會hui。偶ou爾er做zuo這zhe些xie事shi情qing會hui作zuo為wei一yi個ge友you好hao的de姿zi態tai給gei你ni已yi經jing心xin儀yi的de人ren。不bu要yao用yong這zhe種zhong方fang法fa以yi此ci來lai購gou買mai人ren的de感gan情qing,或huo使shi他ta們men必bi須xu在zai未wei來lai某mou時shi給gei你ni以yi回hui報bao。如ru果guo你ni做zuo這zhe些xie事shi情qing太tai多duo你ni可ke以yi認ren為wei是shi理li所suo當dang然ran的de,想xiang獲huo取qu一yi定ding的de利li益yi,好hao象xiang你ni很hen難nan去qu迎ying合he每mei個ge人ren使shi他ta們men喜xi歡huan你ni。因yin為wei他ta們men感gan到dao不bu舒shu服fu有you如ru此ci多duo的de免mian費fei施shi舍she,而er把ba他ta人ren放fang入ru一yi個ge尷gan尬ga的de境jing地di。
讚美他人
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方法。
適當禮貌
無wu論lun對dui你ni的de同tong伴ban意yi味wei著zhe什shen麼me,要yao相xiang當dang有you禮li貌mao的de對dui每mei一yi個ge人ren。如ru果guo有you人ren做zuo了le好hao事shi或huo是shi謙qian讓rang著zhe你ni,你ni要yao向xiang他ta們men表biao示shi感gan謝xie。向xiang人ren借jie東dong西xi時shi要yao友you好hao。不bu要yao生sheng硬ying粗cu暴bao,以yi自zi我wo為wei中zhong心xin,不bu賞shang識shi他ta人ren。不bu要yao太tai過guo分fen,或huo固gu步bu自zi封feng,而er應ying體ti諒liang他ta人ren。
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做(zuo)事(shi)不(bu)要(yao)過(guo)度(du)惹(re)人(ren)討(tao)厭(yan),當(dang)你(ni)外(wai)出(chu)時(shi)要(yao)花(hua)精(jing)力(li)確(que)保(bao)每(mei)個(ge)人(ren)都(dou)玩(wan)得(de)開(kai)心(xin)。如(ru)果(guo)有(you)人(ren)似(si)乎(hu)排(pai)除(chu)在(zai)交(jiao)談(tan)中(zhong),試(shi)圖(tu)操(cao)縱(zong)它(ta)的(de)主(zhu)題(ti)使(shi)他(ta)們(men)可(ke)以(yi)參(can)與(yu)。或(huo)如(ru)果(guo)有(you)人(ren)好(hao)像(xiang)他(ta)們(men)想(xiang)說(shuo)點(dian)什(shen)麼(me),但(dan)他(ta)們(men)不(bu)能(neng)在(zai)熱(re)烈(lie)的(de)討(tao)論(lun)中(zhong)插(cha)一(yi)句(ju)話(hua)。如(ru)果(guo)有(you)人(ren)不(bu)適(shi)應(ying)你(ni)正(zheng)參(can)與(yu)的(de)活(huo)動(dong),盡(jin)力(li)勸(quan)他(ta)們(men)加(jia)入(ru)。如(ru)果(guo)他(ta)們(men)不(bu)熟(shu)悉(xi)怎(zen)樣(yang)做(zuo)花(hua)一(yi)些(xie)時(shi)間(jian)來(lai)向(xiang)他(ta)們(men)解(jie)釋(shi)一(yi)些(xie)的(de)基(ji)礎(chu)的(de)東(dong)西(xi)。如(ru)果(guo)有(you)人(ren)似(si)乎(hu)無(wu)聊(liao),或(huo)懊(ao)惱(nao),看(kan)看(kan)你(ni)是(shi)否(fou)可(ke)以(yi)讓(rang)他(ta)們(men)玩(wan)得(de)開(kai)心(xin)。
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