Dining at a restaurant can be a fun and relaxing experience as long as everyone behaves. However, all it takes is one of your fellow guests with poor manners to get into an argument with the waitress to ruin the whole dining experience. If everyone would keep a few basics in mind, dining out would always be pleasant.

Step1
Greet the hostess. Yes, it is the hostess' job to greet you when you enter the restaurant. However, in order to make the interaction go smoothly, you need to speak up. Let her know how many people are in your party and if you have any special requests for seating.

Step2
Be patient. A good restaurant has a well-trained staff. Let them go through their standard procedure of getting you settled at your table and bringing water and bread. Don't make any requests until your waiter comes to the table and greets you.

Step3
Compliment the staff. Be sure to mention any stand-out service you receive. Compliment anyone from the busboy to the chef if you appreciate the service they provide.

Step4
Converse softly. There's no need to whisper at the table, but you should be aware of the other customers in the restaurant and their right to enjoy a quiet meal. Adjust your tone of voice to suit the atmosphere and keep your conversation private.

Step5
Bring your manners. When you're served food that isn't to your liking, remember the waitress probably didn't cook it. Feel free to ask the waitress to take it back and bring you something else, but don't be argumentative. If the food was really bad, make a point of mentioning it to the hostess or the manager on your way out.

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第一步

與yu餐can館guan女nv主zhu人ren打da招zhao呼hu。女nv主zhu人ren的de職zhi責ze是shi當dang你ni當dang踏ta進jin餐can館guan便bian招zhao待dai你ni。可ke為wei了le使shi你ni們men的de交jiao流liu更geng順shun暢chang，你ni必bi須xu主zhu動dong回hui應ying她ta，使shi她ta了le解jie你ni們men聚ju會hui的de總zong人ren數shu，以yi及ji關guan於yu座zuo位wei安an排pai上shang有you哪na些xie特te殊shu要yao求qiu。

第二步

保(bao)持(chi)耐(nai)心(xin)。一(yi)家(jia)好(hao)餐(can)館(guan)的(de)員(yuan)工(gong)都(dou)受(shou)過(guo)良(liang)好(hao)訓(xun)練(lian)。他(ta)們(men)會(hui)以(yi)特(te)定(ding)的(de)流(liu)程(cheng)讓(rang)你(ni)就(jiu)坐(zuo)，為(wei)你(ni)提(ti)供(gong)水(shui)和(he)麵(mian)包(bao)。在(zai)服(fu)務(wu)員(yuan)來(lai)到(dao)你(ni)桌(zhuo)前(qian)招(zhao)呼(hu)你(ni)之(zhi)前(qian)
，不(bu)要(yao)做(zuo)任(ren)何(he)要(yao)求(qiu)。

第三步

對dui服fu務wu員yuan表biao示shi稱cheng讚zan。務wu必bi為wei提ti一yi提ti你ni在zai這zhe裏li得de到dao的de一yi切qie優you良liang的de服fu務wu。如ru果guo你ni很hen讚zan賞shang他ta們men的de服fu務wu，那na麼me不bu要yao對dui從cong餐can館guan雜za工gong到dao廚chu師shi的de一yi切qie員yuan工gong吝lin於yu表biao達da你ni的de讚zan賞shang之zhi情qing。

第四步

安an靜jing地di交jiao談tan。沒mei必bi要yao在zai餐can桌zhuo上shang耳er語yu
，但dan你ni必bi須xu注zhu意yi到dao餐can廳ting裏li其qi他ta顧gu客ke
，他ta們men有you權quan享xiang受shou安an靜jing的de用yong餐can環huan境jing。調tiao整zheng你ni的de語yu調tiao以yi適shi應ying周zhou圍wei的de環huan境jing，保bao持chi談tan話hua的de私si密mi性xing。

第五步

保bao持chi禮li貌mao。如ru果guo你ni的de食shi物wu已yi經jing上shang了le，但dan你ni卻que不bu喜xi歡huan
，請qing記ji住zhu飯fan菜cai也ye許xu不bu是shi女nv服fu務wu生sheng做zuo的de。盡jin可ke以yi讓rang服fu務wu生sheng拿na下xia去qu換huan些xie別bie的de，但dan別bie急ji著zhe爭zheng辯bian。如ru果guo確que實shi是shi食shi物wu的de問wen題ti
，記ji得de在zai臨lin走zou時shi提ti醒xing女nv主zhu人ren或huo是shi餐can館guan經jing理li。